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Mission

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The Owl Network is determined to transform the world by encouraging and helping others to lead the life they are destined to share with the World.

Deep down inside every one of us, we secretly desire a dream in which we are happy, fulfilled, and an asset to the planet Earth. All too often, life and its experiences sidetrack us to living in the world rather than with the world. We all have been given gifts that if we allow ourselves to share with others, we enrich the lives of everyone. The Owl Network wants to provide encouragement, but more importantly, provide the tools and information we can use to transform our lives.

We are dedicated to providing a group of people who are authentic and know what they are talking about. We want to provide a direct pipeline so you can hear from the experts directly, and not through the filter of the media. And in the process, we want to encourage you to contact us to share your experiences and the knowledge you have gained by making changes in your life.


Paul Ruby

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Improving service may be included on many businesses list of goals, but taking service to a level where “customers for life” are created requires dedication and a commitment to excellence that is often sought but rarely achieved. CREATING GUESTS for Life focuses on experiences from the hospitality industry. However, the principles within this book are relevant and easily incorporated into the business plan or training program of any business in any industry interested in improving service.

The Narcissist Way

How to Move Forward When You Have Been Blinded!

Narcissist – Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others.

There it is the description of a narcissist! As this is a mental health issue, the damage runs even deeper than the description. As the person who is struggling lashes out at all the people around them, that is when the abuse happens. Living with someone who has this disorder can be impossible, as they consume every ounce of your being. 

Children living with a narcissistic parent/guardian, grow up with a multitude of internal struggles and issues. If they are not addressed properly, the pattern of abuse continues to happen. The cycle lives on, and it becomes generational.

As an adult in a relationship with a Narcissist; it can become deadly. The abuser slowly beats down their companion to a place of a clouded existence. They always have a game plan to gain the upper hand and ultimate control, in a completely dysfunctional environment. This is where the narcissist thrives, and feels almighty and powerful. The victim succumbs to the abuse, and becomes the enabler in a game of cat and mouse. 

This pattern of abuse will continue on for years if not stopped. The abuse that starts out as verbal and emotional, ultimately becomes physical! The worst-case scenario is “death by a narcissist”. After they take your identity, dignity and self-worth, some go to the ultimate extreme. They take a life.

Ask yourself this question – If you were in a relationship like this how much would you be willing to take? That is a very loaded question, because once the abuse takes hold you do not have clarity any more.

What about the narcissist is there any hope for them? That answer comes with a mixed bag of reviews.

If the person who is struggling mentally does not get the help that they need (therapy, medications, etc.), they will never change their ways. It is so far imbedded into them, and they do not see the reality of what is happening. They may have moments of stating, “Yes, I have an issue that needs to be addressed” to “You are the problem, not me”. There is no balance. You cannot rationalize with a narcissist.

So, what do you do? I have to say the answer I hear most often is “RUN”, as fast as you can, or you may not make it out alive.

POWERFUL! We, must look at our relationships in our lives, and if they are negative, hurtful or dysfunctional, we must make the decision to help ourselves, and cut ties. This can be a long and painful process, but one that is necessary to save yourself from further trauma, abuse and heartache.

Self-work and self-care are a must to overcome and heal from such horrific situations.

Do you have a narcissist in your life? If so, what are you going to do about it?

Food for thought!

THE NARCISSISTS WAY

I am beaten and broken by the words placed upon me as the voice of detest rolls

Across your lips branding me with darkness.

Those words that you spew repeatedly keeping me in my place afraid to move forward

Frozen in time doing the dance of a puppet you being the puppet master, me being lost

In this natural disaster of what is to be a relationship controlled by you the ultimate Master.

Sly and sleek you have slithered on in unsuspecting cultivating my sin. My mighty savior you claim to be but control is the dirty reality.   The words of comfort start out nice but like a light switch it has turned to fright as you come in like a thief in the night gaining control no end in sight.

In the blink of an eye, you turned on me making it seem as if I’m crazy. With the rhythm and rhyme of your twisted words you make sure that I am never heard.  What a calculating game you play planning out each move every step of the way.   How was I so blind that I could not see the evil villain standing in front of me.

He played on my weakness, my tainted soul picking me out of my pool of defeat, then beating me down like 

A slug on the street.

How did I get here, why is it me do I have a label your entry is free…?  Free to kick me when I was down, and dragging my lost carcass across the ground to that very place where I rest my head, am I better off dead?

It’s time to change the name of this game turn the tables on the narcissist way, fighting back for the very first time handing you back your rhythm and rhyme!   I will emerge from the ashes of disaster and spew your words my own puppet master!

I am claiming my rights once and for all and nothing gives me more pleasure than to see you fall.  Drop to your knees and beg for your rights and see how it is to deal with that Thief in the night.

Time for me to take my personal flight onto freedom as it is my right!

Lisa Zarcone

The Invitation

Every day God leaves an invitation
for you on your pillow.
Its contents are for you alone.

Each day God invites you to share
your life with Him and the World

Each day God provides the Guidance
you need to move in the right direction.

And when the day is over—
and you have made your choices—
He prepares another invitation for you.

And He leaves it upon your pillow
For the next day.

Until He calls you 
Home.

In the Beginning. . .

After years of working towards becoming a research scientist and a medical doctor, in 1971 I left the hallowed halls of science at a major university medical school in Chicago to start a talent agency specializing in the music business. 

Described by Billboard Magazine on June 23, 1973, as an Entrepreneur, a rare term at the time, I had expanded the talent agency to briefly include a rock club down the street from the famous The Second City comedy club. Eventually I became a rock promoter. Living in a penthouse on the Gold Coast of Chicago, I was leading the hedonistically inspired Playboy dream of single men in the early 1970s. All the perks of sex, drugs, and rock n roll surrounded me. As I gazed out the windows on the 52nd floor, I felt I had made it. I was a success.

On June 21, 1974, I was greeted with tornado warnings and ominous storm clouds as we prepared what would be my last concert . . . and yes, at the time, I knew nothing about Summer Solstice. Thankfully, the kids ignored the dire warnings from the television weathermen and were lined up waiting to get in. The groups performing were Styx and Kansas. I was at the top of my game in the music business.

And yet that night, just as the last encore started, a small voice inside me said that tonight would be my last concert.

It was just a strange thought in my head because everything had turned out so perfect. I could not fathom never experiencing again the joy of giving such a wonderful night of entertainment to people. My Mom and Dad were there helping. My business associates and partners were congratulating me on a wonderful night. The audience loved it.

Deciding to skip the after-parties, I rode the elevator alone to my penthouse. Somewhere inside me, I knew this chapter of my life was ending. While I had dreamed of returning to the joy of promoting concerts that I had experienced years before as chairman of the Dance Committee at the University of Illinois Chicago, I really did not have a vision beyond my return to what I loved. At that moment on the night of the concert, I had accomplished my goal. I had achieved my dream.

Little did I know at the time that my Soul had a dream. A Vision. And that I was about to embark on a forty-year journey of discovering my innermost Being

On December 12, 1978, I was living in a small house in the desert in Joshua Tree, California, after a turbulent, life-changing seven years. From the hallowed halls of science to the music business to founding a national manufacturing business, I had experienced the reality of making my dreams come true as an Entrepreneur. 

After a few months of isolation in the desert, I wanted to share my thoughts, beliefs, and knowledge with others on how to become an Entrepreneur who could turn their dreams into reality. I had only previously written a brief published note on the challenges of college from a high school senior’s perspective. Educated in college to be a scientist, writing was never a priority, let alone a class I took. 

And yet, on that night, I sat staring at a blank yellow legal pad with a deep desire to express my thoughts in a logical manner. However, I was soon surprised to find that I was not in control of the words as they flowed onto the paper.

What I had imagined was writing a manual on how to manifest your dreams, then give it to people who would ask me for advice, in the hope they would leave me alone. I envisioned it as similar to a plan for a science experiment. Follow these steps. Observe the results. Try several different approaches. Notarize the results. Done.

That is not what happened with me and that yellow legal pad that night. Nor from that point onward.

Instead I found myself in a different state and words just flowed onto the paper. It was like I was detached from the experience because I was surprised by the thoughts I would write. 

Where did this come from? Where’s my manual? Where is the do-it-yourself approach to manifesting your dreams as an Entrepreneur? 

I was not prepared for the approach that I wrote. I fully agreed with it after writing the thoughts down. I just did not have the conscious capacity to write those thoughts down on my own. While I had intended to write a manual, for lack of a better word, I was in the process of writing a life map where you were the center of the universe and your life. Where you were the vehicle that dreams flowed through. Where you were also the roadblock to manifesting the life you wanted to lead.

The Revelation was in your Being. Your Spirit

I began to understand why I had been led to the desert. I had come to understand myself. To Know Thyself

In my pursuit of these varied ventures in business, I had learned how to turn my dreams into reality. That was easy. 

What I had not investigated was who was doing the manifesting.

Who was I? 

What lurked in the shadows that I had failed to acknowledge? 

What was the nature of my true self? 

Was there more to the world than what I had perceived? 

And how did this all relate to being an Entrepreneur?

And so, I was welcomed into a place I never dreamed of . . . at least consciously. And some would say that was because I was unconscious. And they are probably right. I had been using the real world as my test tube, my laboratory. I never thought I would end up discovering who I really was with the knowledge and steps necessary to match the everyday world with the inner world that I was just about to discover.

In this first section called Conception, I have included the original forty-three pages I wrote during the first writing sessions, although I have added some fomatting for emphasis. I have placed the dates of the writing to show when they were written originally. 

After the first writing on 12/12/1978, I was taken aback. Those words haunted me. Especially, the part that said:

If every person desiring to make a statement. 

Any statement. 

Would.

Who is to judge the value of a Dream? 

Who is to say yours is no good? 

Who has the right to say you should not try?

From these first pages, my life began to change. While I was surprised by the nature of the writing, I soon realized that it was exactly what I needed to write to explore and explain my initial years of being an Entrepreneur.

And to prepare me for the new life adventure I was embarking on.

Welcome to Dreamland in Reality.

CES is Back – World’s Most Influential Tech Event 

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Las Vegas, NV — Jan 05, 2023CES® 2023 opened today with innovative product launches that will help to solve global challenges. Companies are demonstrating how technology can conserve energy and increase power generation, address food shortages, create more sustainable agricultural systems, power smart cities, support access to clean water and more. CES 2023 is more than 70% larger than last year’s show, with over 3200 exhibiting companies, including 1000 startups, featuring the latest technologies. That includes innovations in transportation and mobility, accessibility technologies, electric vehicles, digital health, sustainability, Web3, metaverse and beyond. 

“CES is back! The halls are buzzing with energy and excitement – attendees, exhibitors and media from around the world are passionate about gathering together and advancing our industry,” said Gary Shapiro, president and CEO, CTA. During CTA’s State of the Industry Address Thursday morning, Shapiro noted, “At CES 2023, new innovations promise to change our world for the better. Companies big and small are showcasing innovations in mobility, digital health, artificial intelligence, robotics, food tech, smart home, digital assets and more.” 

Joining Shapiro on stage were John T. Kelley, vice president and acting show director, CES, and Kinsey Fabrizio, SVP, membership, sales and marketing at CTA to provide updates on expected trends and sessions at the show. 

Dr. Carmichael Roberts, chairman of CTA’s Executive Board and founder of SOURCE, joined Shapiro on stage to discuss how SOURCE is providing access to clean water through Hydropanel technology and renewable resources, powered by the sun. 

Shapiro also announced the second edition of CTA’s International Innovation Scorecard, an assessment of policies and practices around the world that fuel tech innovation or stand in the way of progress. A record 24 countries earned the highest ranking of “Innovation Champion”: Australia, Austria, Belgium, Canada, Denmark, Estonia, Finland, France, Germany, Iceland, Ireland, Israel, Japan, Lithuania, Luxembourg, The Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, Singapore, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, the United Kingdom, the United States, as well as the European Union (EU). 

While the CES exhibit show floor opened today, the full week of innovation kicked off on Tuesday and Wednesday with Media Days press conferences, CTA’s 2023 Tech Trends to Watch presentation, CES Unveiled Las Vegas and keynotes from AMD, BMW and John Deere.

CES Opens January 5-8, 2023

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CES®, the world’s most influential tech event, is back in Las Vegas on Jan. 5-8. With more to see than ever, the show footprint will be over 70 percent larger than CES 2022. 

For the first time, CES has a theme: how technology is addressing the world’s biggest challenges. The Consumer Technology Association® (CTA), in partnership with the United Nations Trust Fund for Human Security, will support the global campaign Human Security for All (HS4A).  

“CES is the world’s most exciting technology event, from startups in Eureka Park to global brands on the main stages. We are thrilled to spotlight thousands of innovative companies at this year’s show,” said Gary Shapiro, president and CEO, CTA. “Tech advances are helping to solve the world’s greatest challenges, and CES 2023 will set the agenda for the year ahead.” 

The China Factor

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The New York Times published a guest essay on September 14, 2022, entitled “China is Running Covert Operations That Could Seriously Overwhelm Us.”  The essay addresses the challenges presented by China’s covert intelligence collection efforts to obtain military and national security related information.  This should not surprise anyone who has been involved with China in recent years.

Whether militarily or economically, China’s industrial capacity, combined with its advantageous numbers in population, are enough to raise concerns for any country.  It is best to look at and consider China’s covert activities through a wide lens.  Aside from the size and capabilities of its military, China has become the second largest economy in the world in a relatively short period of time. 

One aspect of U.S.-China competition is commercial trade.  Within the commercial trade context, U.S. industry has been confronted by the eagerness of creative Chinese entrepreneurs to steal U.S. intellectual property (copyrights, trademarks, patents, designs, and trade secrets).  Once U.S. companies moved production to China, imaginative Chinese entrepreneurs began churning out inexpensive fake and substandard versions of the real thing.  It became much easier to access authentic products to replicate and copy when the original product is made either down the road or in a neighboring town instead of traveling long distances.

In the 1990s, U.S. companies complained to the U.S. Government about counterfeit auto parts, batteries, electrical products as well as the usual fake items found on big-city streets.  The tension arising from China’s production of counterfeit goods resulted in U.S. threats of trade sanctions in the mid-1990s until China committed to taking steps to reduce production of counterfeit items and protect U.S. owned intellectual property that was protectible in China.

The years of official statements, written agreements, and increased enforcement have not translated into a major decrease in production of counterfeit (fake) goods that are exported to the United States and the rest of the world.  One might observe that China’s efforts to access U.S. intellectual property simply moved up the food chain to obtain more advanced technologies.

While the Times essay focuses on China’s military and national security espionage activity, we should not ignore the challenges posed by economic espionage.  There have been numerous documented efforts describing economic espionage activities in the U.S.  Specifically, there have been FBI investigations and other government investigations that have resulted in successful U.S. criminal prosecutions and imprisonment of Chinese nationals.  Those caught and prosecuted for engaging in trade secrets theft, i.e., economic espionage, have attempted to steal secrets across a wide spectrum of industries such as circuit board designs for autonomous vehicles, agricultural seeds, aviation technology, and cancer fighting pharmaceutical products.

In addition to criminal prosecution under U.S. law, the U.S. Government has worked to impose obligations on trading partners to enact stronger legal protections to protect trade secrets.  The 2020 U.S.-China Economic and Trade Agreement included commitments for raising the level of protection for trade secrets in China.  The “new” NAFTA (U.S.-Mexico-Canada Trade Agreement) that went into force in 2020 included requirements for the protection of trade secrets, which was not covered in the original NAFTA.  The Comprehensive and Progressive Agreement for Trans-Pacific Partnership, a trade agreement that the U.S. helped negotiate but did not become a party to, also includes trade secrets protections.

Imposing trade secret protection and enforcement in trade agreements are a step forward.  The existence of these obligations in a trade agreement is separate and apart from actual steps being taken to enforce and protect trade secrets.  Once enacted into law in foreign countries, the relevant police, prosecutors, and courts must be committed to implementing the law.

Ultimately, preventing trade secrets theft requires government agencies, business enterprises, research, and other institutions to adopt strict protocols for protecting trade secrets.  Strict protocols, however, are meaningless without a commitment to enforce government, business, institutional protocols to protect valuable trade secret assets. 

In the end, it will be up to the entities that develop and own the trade secrets to be vigilant in protecting these economic assets.  The owners of these secrets are the first line of defense by adopting and implementing strict access procedures, working with law enforcement, and ensuring that our trading partners are living up to their obligations to provide trade secret protection to deter and prevent theft.   

U.S. businesses that develop new technologies must be committed to protecting their advantages regardless of where they operate in the world.  Economic espionage has always existed.  Efforts to protect trade secrets have trailed the pace of increased protection and enforcement of trademarks, copyrights, and patents.  Given the economic potential of trade secrets and the impetus for growth they can have, greater attention to preventing their theft is critical to success.

Timothy Trainer has participated in U.S.-China bilateral intellectual property consultations as a federal government attorney.  As a private sector attorney, he has conducted training for Chinese customs officials and represented clients in intellectual property disputes.

Will the U.S. Democracy Survive?

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Are you willing to stand up to power and personal threats to save our country, the United States of America? To tell the Truth no matter the personal consequences? To have you and your family’s life threatened in an attempt to persuade you not to tell the Truth?

I remember thirty years ago a member of an elite fraternal order told me about how his economic development department’s boss was taking bribes from developers, including a new house, to approve a development in a suburban community. He had evidence. A paper trail. Legal proof.

When I asked him if he was going to turn his boss in to the authorities, he simply replied, “No.” I looked at him dumbfounded, and then he gave me a litany of reasons. He could not afford to lose his job. He could not risk his teenage daughter’s education hopes. He simply needed to go along. Look the other way.

That answer always stuck with me. Would I have the courage to tell the Truth, report on the facts if I was the person in the room who witnessed illegal activity.

These past weeks we have witnessed several men and women answer that challenge in the affirmative. They have been willing to tell the world what they saw and heard during an attempt to overthrow our Democracy.

The reason why they were compelled to tell the Truth? They were in the room. Unlike you and I, and the news media, they were present. They knew the Truth—and were not intimidated by the ones who were trying to subvert our Democracy.

This courage is what makes our experiment in Democracy sacred. No one is above the law. We are a Nation of Laws.

As you fret over the cost of your hot dog buns and the cost of gas, consider how life would be if we did not remain vigilant to protect our country from within.

This Fourth of July remember this is an experiment. There is no reason to believe it will continue unless men and women, including you and I, are willing to stand up for Truth.

American Soldier: His Final Rest

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The gently sloping hills of Arlington National Cemetery overlook the nation’s capital.  From this vantage point, thousands of soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines look across the Potomac River in formation.  It is as if in their passing, they continue to look over us and the country because it is their legacy. 

Here, colonels are among corporals and privates among generals.  Alas, they have come together for their final rest.  Some served for a short time while others did so for a lifetime.  But now, time is irrelevant as we salute them, pay respect to their deeds forever as they have arrived for their final rest. 

Overwhelmingly, those who rest here are unknown but to their loved ones and the brothers and sisters in arms with whom they served.  Often, their heroic actions are unknown to their parents, spouses, children, and grandchildren.  For the family, the only way they may know is through a written citation that accompanies the awarding of a medal.  Or, if they have met those with whom their loved one served.  Those heroic deeds are known only to those who, in their most life-threatening moments, served at their side to keep each other alive to see another dawn.

Today, March 5, my father’s ashes will be interred in Arlington National Cemetery for his final rest.  Officially, the documents inform us that Emerson “Top” Trainer retired from the Army after over 21 years of active duty.  Those years spanned the period from November 1949 to March 1971.  He was seventeen when he enlisted and found himself in Korea a few months after his eighteenth birthday and just weeks after the outbreak of the Korean War.  He was seriously wounded in January 1951. 

He kept re-enlisting.  He knew the risks, but he had also found a “home”.  While he didn’t excel in school, he was very good at soldiering.  From the ice and cold of Korea in the 1950s, the heat and humidity of Vietnam greeted him in the 1960s.  As he rose through the ranks to become a First Sergeant in a rifle company in Vietnam, his experience and contribution to the lives of his young soldiers were not unnoticed.

Retired General McCaffrey, my father’s company commander in 1968, wrote in the Foreword of The Fortunate Son: Top, Through the Eyes of Others that “He gave a sense of being the ‘father’ of these young soldiers. Absolutely fearless. Quiet. Dignified. A teacher. Very gentle way of dealing with people. He was a natural leader. He expected to be obeyed.”  As a young captain and company commander, General McCaffrey added that “I considered him to be the co-commander of the company. He was a rock. The soldiers loved him. He was one of them.” 

After two combat tours of duty in Vietnam and another Purple Heart, the Army was clear that its losses of combat-experienced senior non-commissioned officers dictated that he be placed back on orders for Vietnam after recuperating from burns he suffered.  He reluctantly retired from his Army family.   

Though he no longer wore the uniform, he was never anything but a soldier in mind and spirit.  As the years passed, the young soldiers he had helped get through their combat tours in Vietnam sought him out, and he relished being with them at reunions and other gatherings.  He liked being with other soldiers.  He was in his element.  He understood them, and they understood him.  He made life-long bonds as evidenced by the fact that half a century after serving together in Vietnam, he regularly attended reunions, weekend gatherings, and spoke often to his former soldiers.

For him and so many who are at eternal rest in Arlington, so much about who they were and what kind of soldiers they were is told by what appears on the uniform they wore.  Luckily for my family, there is a group of men who wanted to express their respect for their “Top” (their First Sergeant).  In The Fortunate Son, they described publicly their Vietnam experience and the impact that Top had on their lives so that he would know what he meant to them. 

We are fortunate.  Over the years, we have spent time with many of the men who served with our soldier.  While tears may be shed on this day that he is interred, we celebrate his life and the many positive effects he had on the lives of his brothers in arms and their families.    

If you find yourself in the nation’s capital, look west across the national mall to the rolling hills beyond the Lincoln Memorial.  You may see those who have watched over the country still in perfect formation and wonder if we continue to be worthy of their service and sacrifice.